ANDA HARUS TAHU: Inilah Kalimat TERLARANG Saat BERDO'A Namun Sangat Sering Orang Gunakan.

Berdoa merupakan aktivitas spiritual seorang hamba untuk meminta sesuatu kepada yang pencipta. Bagi umat Islam, berdoa biasa dilaksanakan usai pelaksanaan salat baik wajib maupun sunnah.

Sebelum berdoa, umat Islam terbiasa melantunkan pujia-pujian terhadap Allah melalui kalimat dzikir. Setelah itu, barulah memanjatkan apa yang menjadi keinginannya agar dikabulkan Allah. Ternyata berdoa tidak sebatas berdzikir lalu meminta.

Lebih dari  itu, ada adab yang mengaturnya. Ternyata ada kalimat terlarang yang tidak boleh diucapkan ketika sedang memohon kepada Allah ini. Rasulullah menjelaskan kalimat ini sering diucapkan namun sebenarnya tidak diperbolehkan. Apa kalimat terlarang tersebut? 

Ternyata kalimat ini sering diucapkan oleh sebagian

umat Islam saat berdoa. Bahkan beberapa diantaranya menganggap baik menggunakan kalimat ini. Karena memang, sepintas seperti tidak ada yang salah dengan kalimat tersebut.

Namun ternyata, Rasulullah SAW lebih mengetahui kehendak Allah dibanding kita.

Melalui Nabi Muhammad SAW, Allah SWT menyampaikan bahwa kalimat ini tidak disukai-Nya dan umat dilarang mengucapkan ketika berdoa.

Adalah kalimat “Ya Allah jika Engkau berkenan maka berilah aku (isi permohonan)”, “Ya Allah (isi permohonan) jika Engkau berkenan”  yang menjadi kalimat terlarang ketika berdoa. Sepintas tidak ada yang salah bukan?

Bahkan beberapa diantara kita mungkin sering mengucapkannya usai salat. Kalimat ini terkesan lembut dan tidak memaksa Allah dalam berdoa ketika meminta. Namun ternyata tidak diperbolehkan diucapkan ketika berdoa. Hadist tentang penjelasan ini diriwayatkan   Bukhari yang artinya:

“Apabila salah seorang dari kalian berdoa, hendaklah ia sungguh-sungguh dalam memohon dan janganlah ia mengucapkan, ‘Ya Allah jika Engkau berkenan maka berilah aku.’ Karena sesungguhnya tidak ada yang dapat memaksa-Nya” (HR. Bukhari)

“Janganlah kalian mengucapkan ‘Ya Allah ampunilan aku jika Engkau berkenan. Ya Allah rahmatilah aku jika Engkau berkenan’. Tapi hendaknya ia sungguh-sungguh dalam memohon karena sesungguhnya tidak ada yang dapat memaksa-Nya” (HR. Bukhari)

Seorang ahli tafsir, Ibnu Abdil Barr menjelaskan tentang hadist tersebut. Menurutnya tidak ada yang dapat memaksa Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala. Allah hanya melakukan apa yang dikehendaki-Nya. Allah hanya mengabulkan apa yang dikehendaki-Nya.

Kalimat  ini dianggap tidak berdasar sebab Allah hanya melakukan apa yang dikehendaki-Nya. Ibnu Abdil Barr bahkan mengatakan bahwa ucapan ini hukumnya haram ketika berdoa. Sedangkan Imam Nawawi berpendapat bahwa hukumnya adalah makruh. Allah SWT maha mengetahui Ilmu pengetahun.

Sumber: Infoyunik.com


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  57. These are things your friend needs to talk about with here doctor and HIV health care team. Getting an HIV positive test result is difficult and stressful. It takes time and support. Learning you are positive when you are pregnant also involves finding out about treatment, and using this during the pregnancy to reduce the risk of passing HIV to the baby.

  58. This varies a lot between different people. Usually within a week or two it should get better. If it continues than talk to your doctor about this.

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  67. How long it takes to get used to Odimune? I have been in Odimune for a year but still feel dizzy all the time and i am a shift worker. It worries me at times.

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  69. I was diagnosed with HIV in 2007 and I’ve been living positively since then. I started taking tribuss last year August since my cd4 count had dropped to 250, I went for a re-test in November but the the test came back and my cd4 count was not increasing. ive never been on arv’s so im stressing now cause of this. my medical aid seems to think I havent been taking my medication nd im afraid they might cancel my treatment. what should I do plz advise

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  76. I’ve painful red eyes after I was first given odimune 3 months ago and then given atroiza last month,what shall I do to correct this?I can’t see properly yet I have glasses which were prescribed by the optometrist.

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  81. Gov Jesse Ventura I live in Maywood,CA and “Union Member” WV and I was drugged by own peer while my celebrating and I wanted to file a police report And they refuse to investigate which makes me suspect they were all connected and were trying to conspire against because they don’t understand my understanding, But they broke the law and it’s a criminal act against Humanity and to destabilize undesirables, they wanted to keep my mind weak to imprison. Please try contacting there trying to keep me paranoid and plotting to imprison me,and theres a lot of youth here that are being destabilize just because we don’t accept there way. Please just give me advice and how to clear my name cause i’m not a bad person they just don’t understand they can’t do that and they broke the law, some people should go to jail. I did speak to the police but they seem scared of me talking about it. I beg you help me I’m only 20 years old I live Maywood,CA And do have evidence to prove myself! But I know you can make them understand me! They think i’m crazy cause I try following in your steps and doing the right thing. There Igorot fools that have to much power and something need to STOP this soon! PLEASE come to MAYWOOD,CA or LA! HELP ME!

  82. Hi Naveen – thanks for your comment. If you can provide more information about the bug it will be great, as it is hard to visualize the problem based on the current description.

  83. I am 28 years old and I am HIV positive since 2010. I am strong and fit and it was difficult for me to accept but one day I told my partner about it and she went and got tested. We found out she is negative. She is very supportive and she is looking after me and make sure that I eat well. Now I am taking Odimune and I don’t even have side effects. Can i mix alcohol and Odimune?

  84. hi i just want to know how can i advise my uncle he taking Atroiza and it seems like he doesnt care and i really want help him , he taking it late sometimes and drinking beer so i really help him but i dont much about how does this drug works

  85. i was tested HIv pos this year but dint know when i got infected.My CD4 for the first time was 250,but after two months of collection,it went down to 233.What can be done to increase this though am on CTRM.DO i need to get another drug or what.I have to wait till October before another test can be conducted.Thanks

  86. I’ve painful red eyes after I was first given odimune 3 months ago and then given atroiza last month,what shall I do to correct this?I can’t see properly yet I have glasses which were prescribed by the optometrist.

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