Nasehat Untuk Para Istri Jika Suami Berpenghasilan Pas-pasan

tolongshare.com – Ada cerita menarik untuk direnungkan, tentang sahabat Rasulullah Saw. yang gemar meminta-minta, bernama Hakim bin Hizzam. Suatu hari dia mendatangi Rasulullah Saw. untuk meminta sesuatu dan beliau memberinya. Pada saat yang lain, dia datang dan meminta lagi, Rasulullah tetap memberinya. Lantas, beliau menasehatinya, “Hakim, harta memang seperti taman-taman hijau. Secara lahir sangat manis.

Namun, jika hati istighna (merasa cukup dengan tidak berharap dan meminta-minta), harta itu mendatangkan keberkahan bagimu. Akan tetapi, jika tamak dan rakus, ia tidak akan membawa berkah. Sebagaimana orang yang berpenyakit sapi lapar, setiap makan, dia tidak pernah kenyang.” Setelah mendengar nasehat Rasulullah Saw. Hakim sadar dan berkata kepada Rasulullah Saw., “Sejak hari ini saya tidak akan menyusahkan orang lain lagi.”Bagi Muslimah yang tidak bekerja, sementara suami berpenghasilan pas-pasan bahkan kekurangan, memang menjadi dilema. Menyikapi kondisi tersebut, seorang istri selayaknya tidak berpangku tangan apalagi meminta-minta untuk menutupi kekurangannya. Dikatakan dalam hadis, “Seseorang diantara kalian akan selalu meminta-minta sehingga dia nanti bertemu dengan Allah, sedangkan mukanya tidak ada daging sama sekali” (HR Bukhari, Muslim, dan Ahmad).

Sebaliknya, Rasulullah Saw. memerintahkan agar tetap bertawakal, tetap berusaha maksimal dan berdoa tanpa putus asa. Jika suami berpenghasilan pas-pasan, seorang istri boleh membantunya bekerja, dengan izin suami dan tidak meninggalkan tugas utamanya dalam keluarga. 

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